Reasons Why Some Girls Are Still Single

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Here are some reasons why I think women are
still single these days
1. You?re not approachable.
Girl, you need to SMILE. Period. Guys need some
green-light action so when they glance over and you
don?t smile back, they take it as a ?don?t even think
about it? signal. This is what my male friends tell me.
Another reason why you might be unapproachable
could be because you are always surrounded by your
girlfriends! Some women don?t know how to be
alone. If you?re always with people how can people
walk up to you? Try going to the movies alone,
jogging, taking a walk, and see what happens?
2.
You haven?t figured out your life?s purpose.
Yup! I always say ?before you ask someone to go on
a journey with you, you have to know where you?re
going?. In this case, the journey is a relationship or
marriage. You kinda have to know where it is you
want to go in life before you take someone along.
We are growing everyday so you won?t have it all
figured out before you pursue a relationship, but at
least you?ll know in which direction you?re headed
and that will make it easier to decide who to go with
on the journey.
3.
You aren?t meeting NEW people.
Most people?s routines are so rigid and their social
circles have stayed the same for years! They go to
work, Church, home, and maybe one or two places
and that?s it. No surprise you ain?t found someone all
this time! You know they say ?madness is doing the
same thing over and over again and expecting a
different result? I?m not saying you?re mad, but
maybe it?s time to change things up a little bit. How?
You ask. Well, by changing up where you go and
going out with a variety of friends. Have a diverse
pool of friends and hang out with different groups.
You?ll probably meet new people that way. Network.
Follow up on business contacts. Tap into all your
affiliations not just because you want a romantic
relationship but also because you want richer
friendships and a richer life.
4.
The guys around you are straight up not ready!
Yup! ?Cos girl, you KNOW you got it going on. You?re
beautiful, hardworking, friendly, fun, etc. but the
dudes around you are either SUPER blind, intimidated
(in which case it?s okay), or they?re not your type.
So, what do you do in this case? Hmmm, you could
try the tips in #3 and see how that goes or honey,
call on Jesus to order the right dude?s steps!
5.
You?re being unrealistic.
Hmm, this is an interesting one. I believe everyone
should have non-negotiables when it comes to
relationships but I guess sometimes the expectations
can be unrealistic. I always say that we put too much
pressure on other human beings to be PERFECT. We
really shouldn?t expect more from others than we are
ourselves. My Pastor said something the other day
that was very profound. He said a lot of women are
looking for oak trees (ready-made, already
established men) when they should be looking for
acorns (men with potential). I know a lot of women
especially after a certain age don?t want to be with ?
potential? but when he said that, I realized that there
will be some kind of potential in the guy that only a
woman can bring out. Haven?t you noticed that
when your male friends get married, shortly after
they get that ?marriage glow?? I notice it all the time!
It?s the woman! She?s bringing out the best in him.
So, ladies, don?t be afraid of potential anymore. Just
get with the kind of potential you are comfortable
with.
People! So, what do y?all think? What other reasons
do you think explain why women and men are STILL
single?

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